01.11.2024 Lag in relationships

There is often a lag between letting go of something (e.g. an idea of a person, of a future) and the feelings of possibility and freedom that letting go creates. Learning to live with and alongside this lag, affirming it and even appreciating it at times is elementary to becoming in relationships.

To experience this lag is to be vulnerable. This vulnerability needs to be treated with care and patience. It is as valuable as any other part of the process.